It is possible to add a product to Magento but have it listed only on eBay, not on the website.

On the General tab of Product Information of the Catalogue Item:

Set Status to Enabled

Set Visibility to Not Visible Individually

Publish the Listing

Find the product in XpressGrid (Marketplaces | Codisto > Manage Listings), set your options (Amazon or eBay tab) and set Amazon Status / eBay Status to Enabled.

Finally push the save button in the XpressGrid Header

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